Sex is great, and the experience can sometimes be amazing, good, bad or awkward.
Awkward and uncomfortable moments are bound to happen in sex. However it does not mean you should stop having sex, sometimes you can just laugh it off with your partner and move on.
Let’s talk about some awkward moments during sex and how to deal with such situations:
Bra troubles: Some men might have issues removing the bra in the heat of the moment. There is so much adrenalin that you feel the bra is slowing you down. The struggle continues and then you get to a point where you just don’t know how to remove it.
Solution: Ladies help the men out, remove the bra yourself, tell him to calm down while you remove it. Try to remove it in an enticing manner that will keep him in the mood.
Penetrating in the wrong hole: This definitely can be awkward especially if you are not into anal sex and he keeps trying to penetrate the wrong hole.
Solution: Help him redirect the penis to the vagina and if need be show him where it is so that the mistake does not happen again!
Climaxing almost immediately: This can be a total turn off especially for women.
Solution: Generally speaking men get to orgasm way earlier than women. So as a man, slow your pace. Don’t thrust in immediately, instead do a lot of foreplay (kissing, tender touching, flirting with her), touch her arousal zone(clitoris, G-spot), and when you are ready to penetrate try female-friendly positions such as cowgirl or reverse cowgirl positions, although men can reach orgasm quicker no matter the positions, so try to get her to orgasm before you penetrate.
The need to really pee: Sometimes the need to pee can be more overwhelming than the sex. So you have to choose either to continue the sex, pee while in action on the bed or go to the bathroom prior.
Interestingly some orgasms are said to occur like the feeling of wanting to pee so just enjoy your sex and if the need to pee becomes really overwhelming, go and pee. If it is any consolation, it is medically advised to pee after sex to get rid of any dirt that might have gone into the bladder while having sex.
Vagina noises (queef): This could be awkward especially for first-timers. The vagina is totally awesome but sometimes can be an unpredictable organ especially when it makes weird noises and this could be because air or fluids was trapped in the vagina during thrusting.
Somebody farts: Farting can be awkward but also funny so just move past it and go on. Is there really anyone that does not fart? Fart during sex can happen so don’t let it ruin your fun.
Dirty talk gone wrong: It is possible to get caught up in sex that you do a whole lot of dirty talking such that when you are done you begin to think about it you wonder if you really said it.
Solution: If you like to talk dirty during sex ensure that your partner is in on it as much as you are. you don’t want to end the sex halfway because someone felt offended.
When the sex won’t end: So sometimes, the sex just seems to go on and on and you might just have lost interest during the sex that you are thinking “aren’t you done yet?”.
Solution: Communicate with your partner when you are not to enjoying the sex. Do not suffer in silence.
Having a muscle spasm during sex: Muscle cramps can ruin the whole fun especially when trying out a new style. Don’t suffer in silence, let your partner know, so you both can take a break. You can continue when you feel better.
Period happens: This could be sexy for those who enjoy sex during periods but for someone who is not into it this can totally be a buzzkill especially at the peak of the sex.
Solution: Know your cycle and know when you expect to see your period.
Sex is a beautiful and fun experience that can also be weird, uncomfortable, and awkward, all of these are normal experiences, so there is no need to feel embarrassed, instead laugh through the awkward moments and try again.
Let the fun and satisfaction it brings overshadow the awkward moments. Enjoy the process of your sex every time and try not to already have a picture of what you think the sex is going to be like instead enjoy the sex at the moment.
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